Avoid the Binge

John Lofye • October 23, 2025

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Some people may think that healthy eating means that we must eat the same number of calories each day. It rarely happens. We are not robots. For hypothetical purposes, let’s say that my daily caloric goal is 1500 calories. If I can do this, I will be able to lose one pound a week. A typical week might look like this:

Monday-I nailed it

Tuesday-I nailed it again

Wednesday-The office had a catered lunch, and I overate. I then said the heck with it, and I overate for the rest of the day. I end up being way over my caloric goal.

Thursday- I feel like crap, and I feel guilty, so I end up starving myself. My calories are way too low, and I have trouble making it through the course of the day. 

Friday-I wake up feeling deprived and my energy levels are depleted. I end up binging for the duration of the day, so my calories are way too high again. I feel like crap mentally and physically and want to quit!

Saturday and Sunday-I get back to my goal of 1500 calories a day.


This scenario is not uncommon. This yo- yo dieting can wreak havoc on your body and mind. If you starve one day, you will typically binge the next day. So, what is a healthier approach. If you have a high calorie day, just go back to your normal plan the next day. No starvation or overexercising. Just get back on schedule. Your body will get back on schedule and you can avoid the viscous cycle of starvation and bingeing. This is a healthy and sane approach to weight loss.




By Joh n Lofye October 23, 2025
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